Children meeting a new partner
Hello, looking for some advice on when is the correct time for children to meet my new partner. For context, me and my wife have been separated for 2 years and divorced officially for 8 months. We have children (8 & 12) who stay with my ex majority of the time (I have the kids every other weekend). To the best of my knowledge, my ex isn't dating anyone seriously, but I have recently met someone who is great. They are interested to meet my children but I don't know when the right time is? I don't want to upset my children when they have already transitioned from the family home but I guess at some point they will have to meet. What is the normal timeframe for these types of situations? Has anyone had their children meet their new partner and it was successful?
SSJ at 31.10.2025 14:56:00
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Moving on after divorce
I've been going through a divorce for a long time and it's recently been finalised, which is a huge relief!! Now it's time for the next stage of my life, what are the best ways for a newly single women to rebuild life after divorce? Any advice is welcome :)
Dolly at 29.10.2025 14:36:50
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How do I know if we should divorce? What's life like after?
I'm considering getting a divorce, but I'm not 100%. I don't think either of us are particularly happy in our marriage, but how do I know if we will be happier apart? Is it tough to re-build your life after?
DayDreamer at 21.10.2025 8:01:01
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How do people generally adjust
How do people generally adjust to life after divorce, and what are some common challenges or opportunities they might face when starting fresh
KN2223 at 26.09.2025 11:02:57
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New partner and boundaries
My ex and I coparent 50/50 week on week off. We are amicable and have comfortably shared family occasions together since our divorce. I have a new partner and she is very uncomfortable with the circumstances. She doesn’t understand that I am prioritising my children anytime we do anything together. I have no interest in getting back together with my ex. My new partner thinks our dynamic is inappropriate and also disrespectful to her. Is she being reasonable?
Glen at 06.02.2025 12:48:09
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Soon to be divorced in Northern VA
My wife is in the process of filing for divorce from me. We have been together for 15 years and have three kids together. I have little friends outside of our core married friends and have no idea how to live life without her and without my kids. I am looking to chat or meet with someone who has been there already.
Frank at 28.02.2023 18:19:45
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question-about-property
Where does a man move to during separation and then divorce? I earn a modest salary and pay a mortgage on the family home (12 years married with 3 children). My wife is a stay at home mum. Toxic relationship, everyone anxious, adversely affecting us all including the children and their behaviour. I need to leave. But I want to make sure I know what I\’m doing before I take this step. I have the option of moving into parents house but would rather not of course. It\’s not exactly conducive to me getting on with my life and eventually forming a new, loving relationship to show as a positive example to my children. The last thing I want to do is sell the house – I believe the children should stay with their mum in the family home. And I don\’t expect a court would rule that anyway. However there\’s no way I can afford to rent a place and continue to pay the mortgage as well. So am I just stuck here in a really uncomfortable situation as I suspect thousands of others are? Any suggestions gratefully received.
Pascal at 05.08.2018 8:02:07
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Need Help: Explaining reason of divorce to my 5 year old son
I am a female Muslim and divorced with mutual consent when my son was 2 year old. Reason being, we never had sound relation which broke when he was not supportive and not ready to handle child responsibilities. Now he is 5 and I would like to share him the reason for divorce. I know he is very small to understand but i want to satisfy his curiosity, slowly and gradually that why his dad is not staying with him. He is in Sr. KG and many times asked to explain my family. I understand that he has to face such situations when he grows up and mingles with school mates. Therefore, I would like to ask in what way and what I should explain to my child so there is no issues related to his mental health and he remains happy. Also I would not like to say negative things about his dad. Please guide. Thanks a lot.
maazre at 05.07.2018 8:02:07
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