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I’ve been married for over a decade, and now I find myself facing the reality of separation that will likely end in divorce. . About a year ago, my partner decided to move to another city to be closer to her parents. I stayed behind because of my job and my own family responsibilities. The real turning point came a few months ago. While clearing out old boxes, she stumbled across something from my past and completely freaked out. What makes it harder is that our marriage hadn’t been an easy one for a long time. There were stretches without affection, without even simple gestures of closeness. I really do feel like we're coming to an end and I don't know the first thing about getting a divorce as this was not in my plans.