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i’ve already started the divorce process, forms sent, money spent, all that admin, and i cant shake the feeling maybe i should have tried harder. couples therapy, counselling, actually talking things through, giving it one last proper shot before ending it.
the thing is, i’m still in love with her. part of me feels like i’ve rushed, or given up too soon and it’s gutting. has anyone else been here, feeling regret after the process has already begun? how did you deal with the mix of love and loss and the feeling maybe you didnt fight hard enough?
would really appreciate hearing from anyone whos been through this