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We’ve always been really laid back parents, nothing too strict, and our teens have generally responded well. But now we’re separated, I’m worried that any rules or boundaries will just disappear completely.
I don’t want to suddenly become a stricter parent because I think that will make them rebel or wonder where it’s coming from, but at the same time I don’t want things to slide so much that it feels like they can do whatever they want and manipulate the situation.
Has anyone been through this? How do you keep some consistency and structure without suddenly turning into the “strict parent” or completely losing your chill? Would really appreciate any practical advice or strategies that have worked.
