Navigating ‘Co-parenting New Year’ 2024

With the children returning to school, it's a perfect time for a fresh start.

At amicable, we call it the Co-parenting New Year . Whether you're newly separated or a seasoned co-parent, September offers a chance to set new resolutions for a successful year ahead.

In this blog, we look at some things to consider:

For separated parents:

1. Arguing over who buys the school uniform?

We get it. Seemingly small things can create tension and conflict. If you would like to review your parenting arrangements, like who pays for what and when, take advantage of our service. Book a 90-minute consultation with an amicable specialist to help you agree and plan for the year ahead.

2. Time for a new drop-off and pick-up schedule?

It's okay to review existing agreements. Children change, and so do your circumstances. Different ages and stages will mean that existing routines need updating. Another factor can be the introduction of new partners and blended families. Embrace the opportunity to update your arrangements to adapt to change.

3. Have you included maintenance in your consent order?

If you have a family-based maintenance arrangement, you can still document this in your consent order with your other financial agreements, and it can be reviewed if circumstances change. This differs from getting a child arrangements order, as it's only focused on maintenance, not your other children's arrangements. Speak to our friendly team of specialists to check if you might benefit from including your maintenance in a consent order.

Thinking about separating or newly separated:

1. Make a plan to tell the children

If you haven't already, create a plan to tell your children. Read more of our blogs for tips and advice, or book a 90-minute session with an amicable specialist to help you prepare.

2. Create a parenting plan

A parenting plan can be used to document all your parenting apart arrangements. If you need help creating arrangements or reaching an agreement, use our Separating with Children Service.

3. Find your village

Finding your feet as a separated parent can be tough. You're not alone. There are fantastic communities and resources to help you navigate your parenting apart journey. Listen to The Divorce Podcast to hear other people's stories for inspiration.

September isn't just the start of a new school year—it's an opportunity for growth and renewal in your co-parenting journey. Whether you're revisiting old arrangements or creating new ones, amicable is here to help you every step of the way.