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Step-by-step guide on how to file for a divorce in England & Wales
Starting the divorce or dissolution process can feel daunting. Understanding the divorce process can reduce stress and help you find the best way to file for divorce.
In this guide, we’ll take you through the entire process of applying for a divorce step-by-step, but first, let’s look at what your options are for managing the divorce process
What options do I have when applying for a divorce or dissolution?
DIY divorce
A DIY divorce is where you manage the divorce process yourself. You can do this online using and you can do so online using the government's divorce portal.
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Many people find managing the divorce process themselves tricky and stressful. amicable offer various online services that manage your divorce for you from start to finish. We sort out the legal bits so that you can focus on what really matters to you.
Divorce lawyer
This route is necessary if there are any danger signs or the potential for international jurisdiction.
If your divorce is amicable with no complications, you may not need a lawyer or solicitor – there are definitely cheaper options available. This route is mainly necessary if there are any danger signs or the potential for international jurisdiction.
You don’t need a solicitor to have an expert manage your divorce for you.
What do you need to start your divorce?
To be married/in a civil partnership for at least one year.
At least one address for you and/or your ex-partner must be in England or Wales.
An original/certified copy of your marriage certificate, in English.
To decide whether you're applying together in a joint application, or alone as a sole applicant.
Click here for advice on getting a new copy or a translated copy of your marriage certificate. (If you've lost it, a new one can be ordered from the registrar where you married or from the government website. If your marriage certificate is not written in English, you must get it translated and notarised.)
Have £612 ready to pay the government court fees. You can also check if you/your ex is entitled to a discount on the court fees here.
Divorce process guide: file for divorce in England and Wales step-by-step
Step one: Complete the divorce application
Submitting your divorce or dissolution application is how you initially apply for your divorce and there are various ways of doing this. You can do this part yourself. Alternatively, if you want/need support from a divorce expert, read through the various options available to you in our straightforward guide to divorce options or speak to one of our experts today to discuss your personal situation and how we can help you.
You will have to decide whether you would like to make a sole application or a joint divorce application. Be very careful to fill out each box as required – spell everything correctly and use the small print on the government website for help with this.
Step two: The acknowledgment of service
The acknowledgment of service form (AOS) needs to be completed by the other person.
The respondent is sent a letter with login details for them to acknowledge receipt of the petition online.
If they don’t or you don’t hear anything from the court, you should ring the court helpline on 0300 303 0642. You may need to serve papers to ensure your ex receives them.
Step three: Apply for your decree nisi (D84)
Apply for your conditional order. There is a mandatory reflection period built into the divorce process. You must wait 20 weeks after your UK divorce application has been issued by the court before you can proceed to the next stage. You can apply for your conditional order if:
If you’ve applied for a divorce via paper, you can download and print off the relevant forms from the government website. If you are using the government's online system – you will be asked to fill out the conditional order application online. This is when a judge will review your application and confirm you are entitled to get a divorce. If the judge agrees the relationship has broken down and is past the point of repair, you will both receive a ‘conditional order pronouncement date’. And after that, a conditional order certificate confirming you are entitled to a divorce.
It’s important to ensure your application does not have errors, as this will cause delays.
Step four: Apply for a consent order (optional)
If you would like to sort out your finances, you should submit a consent order. A consent order spells out how you both plan to split your finances (assets, debts, income etc). It’s a good idea to have one if you have assets to split and want to make sure any agreement you come to is legally binding. amicable offer a consent order drafting service, to help you with this stage of the divorce/dissolution process.
Get a consent orderYou need to send it to your local divorce centre (you can find the address on the government website).
Once the court has processed your divorce/dissolution papers, you will receive the notice of issue – by email.
Once you have confirmation that your divorce/dissolution has been issued, let your ex know their paperwork is on its way.
What options do I have when applying for a divorce or dissolution?
Tip 1
Where possible, make sure your partner agrees before you apply for a divorce. If they don't agree and aren't willing to cooperate, it can slow down proceedings.
Tip 2
Get support if you're not sure how to apply for a divorce. Do your research before completing forms, and ask for help if you think you might fill it in incorrectly.
Tip 3
Use the reflection period to sort out your financial and children's arrangements. amicable has lots of services to help you with this.
Tip 4
Did you know you/your ex can still make a financial claim in the future even though you’re divorced? Decide if you want to make your financial split legally binding through a consent order. A consent order will put an end to any future claims.
How long does it take to divorce?
It depends. For a more detailed answer, we've created a guide for how long a divorce takes with tips on how to speed the process up.
On average, if there are no bumps in the road, it takes at least seven months for all of the divorce paperwork to be completed and your divorce/dissolution to be made legally binding through the courts – or nine months if you have money and property to split. You can request a personalised estimate by answering a few simple questions here.
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FAQs
How do amicable negotiation services work?
Our negotiation services help couples agree on a fair financial settlement during their divorce. A dedicated Divorce Specialist guides you through structured discussions using the GROW coaching model. We focus on practical solutions, reducing conflict, and making sure both of you feel heard. Once you reach an agreement, we draft a legally binding consent order for court approval.
Do we need to be on good terms to use this service?
No, you don’t need to be amicable, but you do need to be willing to have constructive discussions. Our specialists are trained to help navigate disagreements and find fair solutions, even in emotional situations. If you're unsure whether negotiation is right for you, book a free consultation with our team.
How is negotiation different from mediation?
Mediation involves a neutral mediator helping couples explore options but doesn’t provide legal advice or draft agreements. Our negotiation service offers structured support, expert guidance, and the preparation of legally binding documents, streamlining the process so you don’t need multiple professionals.
Do we still need a solicitor?
No, our negotiation service replaces the need for traditional solicitors. We guide you through the legal and financial aspects of your divorce and prepare all necessary documents, including the consent order. If you’d like independent legal advice at any stage, you’re free to consult a solicitor.
How much does it cost?
The cost of our negotiation services ranges from £3,450 to £5,910, depending on what you’ve already agreed and your specific situation.
